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Offline artlady

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It has been 2 or 3 years since I've been here
« on: July 11, 2015, 09:55:00 AM »
Maybe some that were here with me have reunited with their estranged children. My case is no better truth be known it is worse and I see no fixing . Hope all is well   . Mine is the controlling   narcissist  sil

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Re: It has been 2 or 3 years since I've been here
« Reply #1 on: July 11, 2015, 10:33:50 AM »
Wonderful to get to say "hi!". A.  :) Sorry things haven't changed for the better. How are you? Are you doing better? Hugs...
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Re: It has been 2 or 3 years since I've been here
« Reply #2 on: July 12, 2015, 01:50:21 AM »
Oh it has taken me almost 5 years but I feel I'm back to me almost and moving forward.  So much has gone on I guess I could write a book . My question is how are you and are some of my old buddies still here.

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Re: It has been 2 or 3 years since I've been here
« Reply #3 on: July 13, 2015, 06:26:50 AM »
Hi again!  My situation is the same.  Still no contact with OS/DIL, and they have two children now.  I've let that go and just decided that's how it is.  Hate it, but don't dwell on it any longer.

YS/DIL and I are still very close.  They have 3 children now, who are my joys.  He's still in the service 15 hours away, so visits are only a couple of times of year, but SKYPE is my best friend.

So even though not much has changed, I have changed.  Things are 10000% better because I changed and just accepted the non-relationship and enjoy those that want to be in my life.  It's made a huge difference.
We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us. -
Joseph Campbell