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You are in my prayers Luise.

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nikncon

February 19, 2013, 05:08:01 am Last Edit: February 23, 2013, 10:10:42 am by luise.volta
I know that Val is not doing well. He is in a nice comfortable home and your daily visits are comforting for both of you. Take care.xx

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luise.volta

Thank you, Nik. He is 101 and ready for what's next.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

Keys Girl

"Today I will be as happy as a seagull with a french fry." Author Unknown

luise.volta

February 20, 2013, 10:56:51 am #3 Last Edit: February 20, 2013, 11:06:01 am by luise.volta
I so appreciate you walking the walk with me. I go to see Val several times a day for short visits. I softly, sing him the "Evening Prayer" from the opera Hansel and Gretel and sometimes he squeezes my hand.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=Rdofdm5n8Gw

When at night you go to sleep,
Fourteen angels watch do keep;
Two your head are guarding,
Two your feet are guiding;
Two are on your right hand,
Two are on your left hand.
Two who warmly cover,
Two who o'er you hover,
Two to whom 'tis given,
To guide your steps to heaven.

Sleeping softly, then it seems
Heaven enters in your dreams.
Angels hover round you,
Whispering they've found you;
Two are sweetly singing.
Two are garlands bringing,
Strewing you with roses,
As your Soul reposes.
God will not forsake you
When at last death takes you.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

Footloose

Luise, How blessed is Val to have such a loving partner in you?! I only hope when your time comes, you are wrapped in the warmth you have so lovingly given to him, us and all who have had the blessing of you in their lives.  Just know that even if we are not near, you will be in our hearts forever!

Even tho, I have been away, I am not too far to send my love to you with wishes of peace and comfort.

Thank you for this site and for being one of those 14 angels,,,,,on earth:)  I know for a fact,you have made my LIFE better!

Biggest hugs to you dear friend!

nikncon

You are a real inspiration to all of us here.I also hope to be surrounded with a loving caring person like you when I am at the stage that Val is in.Hugs.xxAngels are looking down on both of you.God has his arms ready to accept Val into Heaven.Take care.

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luise.volta

Val passed today ar 10:40 AM Pacific time. I was sitting at his side...singing. All is well.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

JaneF

I just got notification about Val.  Luise I am so very sorry for your loss.  I cannot imagine how difficult this time must be for you.  I will keep you in my thoughts.  Blessings to you.  J

nikncon


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luise.volta

Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

nikncon

What a nice looking man.You have all those photos and memories to remember him.Take care of yourself and take time to grieve though you knew this was coming.Hugs Nik.

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luise.volta

A widow one day. I woke up yesterday married. Grief hits like wave and takes me down...then it's a while between waves.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

Pen

Respect ... is appreciation of the separateness of the other person, of the ways in which he or she is unique.
-- Annie Gottlieb

Beth 2011

Dear Ms. Luise,

You are in my prayers.  I am so sorry about Mr. Val.   

luise.volta

I appreciate all of you so much. What a blessing you are. Between the waves I mentioned above are the peaceful times of being balanced and grounded in the joy of having had 23 years with the only person I have ever known capable of unconditional love. He never spoke an unkind word to me and I can be a real pill!
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama