Again, Barely....you are so right and wise..... I would never have a friend who treats me as my child does. Nor could I imagine treating another person that way. And yet because they are our children we can excuse this?? No, we can't.
I have to tell you as well.... When I first read where you said what a witch...I was taken aback and quickly thought "well that was not very nice." I felt defensive. I do that with my husband and get mad when he says anything negative about her.... But Barely....right now I am tearing up, because for you to have said it was ok and it's true...she is a little witch...and she is horrible to me...... Oh my gosh, how healing is this place...... It's ok because you of all people understand...... And if I heard a child did that to you I would say the same...... On her 25th birthday I took her for a lovely lunch and I sat there crying, with tears running into my food because she was telling me she never wanted her children around me. This was before she was even married....
Why do I want her to love me so badly...... Barely maybe this has to do with if your own child can not love you who can....Which is what I faced with a mother who did not love or want me...... My daughter knows how horrible my mother was to me and how sad my child hood was because of her rejection of me. How much more cruel that makes my daughter. She is a witch.
I love you Barely....you words have hugged me big time!!!!!!!
