Now I am just struggling with the thought.....could I be the glue in their relationship? If this really is a rebellion, and the age is right, early twenties, then my reactions may have been a driving force in the marriage. It actually could be that my continued issues are a uniting factor in their marriage. I have to wonder. And if it is a uniting factor can I be two faced enough to act as if she is the most wonderful DIL imaginable?? If I can act that way, for whatever reason, don't you think it will improve things? At least acting that way, even if it is fake, will make someone other than me the problem. I wonder if I can do that for the rest of my life??