And if my parents do not come out here -- which a lot of the times, they don't, they have young children in school too and have a busy life, like DH and I. MIL takes that as a sign that she gets free run for the entire time. Just yesterday she got it in her head that she wanted to do something yesterday afternoon, between DH and I we had 5 voicemails, an email to each of us demanding we call and I don't want to even know how many times she actually called b/c BOTH of our phones battery died.
Well, it's just not my parents either. DH and I are busy, we don't have time for a lot of this. I think from reading around we do spend a lot more time with her than most people do, but it's still not enough. I don't know if we are young, we are late twenties. And MIL is married, she does not work -- has never worked, even after the kids were in school and out of the home. She has hobbies but I don't think it is enough to satisfy her. She does cherish her role as mother and I've never really heard her talk about anything outside of that, anything she's done with or for her children etc. She also had a tragedy happen to one of her kids a long time ago and I don't think she's ever gotten over it. But I also think a lot of people just give in to her because of it.