The point is, how does one refute something so absolutley assinine and off the wall? How does one even defend ones self? This goes hand in hand with how I was to supposed to have yelled and screemed at DILs mother during the first GCs Christening.... something else one would think one would remember... AND how I must have thought her son was a dog because I commented that the new giant dog pillow that the dogs wouldn't even go near, would make a nice place for little GS to sleep if he stayed over. Comfy and safe. I do remember that... and OF COURSE I said that because I really thought her son was a dog. Right? Louise said, in another thread that if someone is determined to hate you, you could say "good morning" and that would be wrong and hateful. Oh so true!! lol!! Gottal laugh it off... or cry.. I prefer laughter