We received a package today from the home shopping network from MIL. It's one of those banana based frozen treat makers. Now, here's the thing, DD can't eat bananas due to bathroom troubles. I've explained ths to MIL before. Ive even told her that there is sometimes blood when DD wipes. So it's not capriciousness on my part.
I'm trying not to look at this as a deliberate thumbing of her nose at us because we're not going to the IL's for Christmas (it's not their turn). But it really feels that way.
So, my question, can I refuse this gift based on DD's health?