My MIL is awesome, I am extremely lucky let me tell you and I know that. My issue is her telling me how to take care of my children like I don't know what I am doing and it hurts my feelings and makes me mad. It seems to be that she cannot seperate me from her other grandchildrens mom, who for tr lack of better words should have never been allowed to have children. My inlaws have been raising my nieces on and off their whole lives and they currently live with them full time. Who knows maybe my mil is just being caring but from my stand point telling me to watch my daughter when my mil walks away? I am standing right there I always have my eyes on her even when's DH has her. It's like she does not trust me another example is when they get colds she keeps questioning if they are going to the doctor and if I say they will be fine it's just a cold and she just keeps going on and on.
Maybe it's just me and I am being to sensitive I don't want her to think I am a terrible mom like the other one