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Problem Solving => Adult Sons and/or Adult Daughters => Topic started by: Itsgoingtobeok on February 17, 2020, 01:09:41 pm

Title: Drug overdose DS
Post by: Itsgoingtobeok on February 17, 2020, 01:09:41 pm
My son passed away this weekend to a drug overdose. I am heartbroken, yet some what relieved that he is at peace. We hadn't spoken in almost 4 years. I tried to help, we always fought, actually he was very awful to me, pushed me away as hard as he could. Right now, I am in shock, kind of comatosed,don't know what I should be doing. I don't even know why I am here, just hoping someone else out there has experienced this and could share some  wisdom.
Title: Re: Drug overdose DS
Post by: luise.volta on February 20, 2020, 03:32:41 pm
Welcome, I. We ask all new members to go to our HomePage and under Read Me First to read the posts placed there for you. Please pay special attention to the Forum Agreement to be sure WWU is a fit for you. We are a monitored Website.

My heart goes out to you. I lost my eldest son when we were at odds and had been for years. It wasn't a drug overdose, it was a sleep apnea stroke. It left me with so many feelings of guilt and incompletion that I didn't know how to deal with. 

I wish I had gone to a therapist, so that is all I can think of to suggest to you. I needed to be heard and supported by someone not involved in my life and the drama of our relationship. I eventually learned that my son had a lot of issues that had nothing to do with me that he held me responsible for. 

You matter. You did your best and that's all any of us can do. Blessings...
Title: Re: Drug overdose DS
Post by: Itsgoingtobeok on February 27, 2020, 09:00:48 am
Ty, Louis, this is a tough one. I am taking your advise and seeking some help.
Title: Re: Drug overdose DS
Post by: luise.volta on February 27, 2020, 07:47:08 pm
I am walking the walk with you in my heart, 'I'...24/7.