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Problem Solving => Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws => Topic started by: starfire on January 05, 2017, 07:44:33 am

Title: Baptism
Post by: starfire on January 05, 2017, 07:44:33 am
Hello,

This time I'm somewhat in the wrong and I know but it's not due to my own doing. So here's the situation. We are planning to baptize our daughter on January 21. This is due to the godfathe moving to another state in March so he only has free weekends in January and February. The godmother is a Manger so she doesn't get many weekends off and it was a weekend that also works for her. Also father only has a few weekends available due to our church only doing baptisms certain weekends and some are also booked already. So the problem is my MIL is on call that weekend so she wouldn't be able to make it, she does however make the schedule and we were hoping she'd otherwise switch with someone. My problem is what do I do if she wants us to switch weekends? I don't know any others that work for all three before the godfather moves. Please help, this situation isn't ideal but we want our daughter baptized and don't know how else to make it possible.

Thank you
Starfire
Title: Re: Baptism
Post by: luise.volta on January 05, 2017, 08:04:44 am
To me, there is no right or wrong in these issues. Sometimes it is nearly impossible for everyone to be available on the same day at the same time. All you can do is prioritize and hope those involved will understand or put it off until the principals could all attend. There's obviously not easy solution. Hugs...