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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
May 03, 2018, 06:02:18 PM
Thank You I'm thankful for this site, trying to ignore emails from dil and separate for now because I recognise a pattern and I must think of myself and the stress.
The emails to say the least are mean but what can I do, nothing.
We are leaving on a trip for a while and I'm looking so forward to seeing old friends.
Thank You again for this forum.
Cece
The emails to say the least are mean but what can I do, nothing.
We are leaving on a trip for a while and I'm looking so forward to seeing old friends.
Thank You again for this forum.
Cece
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
May 02, 2018, 07:19:34 PM
I don't want anyone to get me wrong , this is the hardest thing I've had to do we have been the primary care takers of my 6 year old grandson since his birth. It has been a rocky road all most all of those six years.
I just can't take it anymore and it will I hope get easier with time .
I just can't take it anymore and it will I hope get easier with time .
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
May 02, 2018, 06:31:09 PM
It's hard but I have to do it even if it is hard to be away from my gs who we love dearly.
At this point if she reaches out I'll go slow and try not to let myself be used so then I won't feel resentment.
Life is so short all of this is just to much in the long run.
I'm going to try and enjoy what's left thanks for all the support.💜💚?
At this point if she reaches out I'll go slow and try not to let myself be used so then I won't feel resentment.
Life is so short all of this is just to much in the long run.
I'm going to try and enjoy what's left thanks for all the support.💜💚?
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
May 01, 2018, 10:32:51 PM
Thank You this site has helped me so much.
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
May 01, 2018, 09:52:51 PM
Thank You for reply but she threw a fit about it so probably wasn't a great idea, I definitely don't want to cause my son any more strife so that's not happening again.
Life goes on and is so short at the same time, sometimes relationships can't be mended.
I keep working on myself that's all I can do.
Life goes on and is so short at the same time, sometimes relationships can't be mended.
I keep working on myself that's all I can do.
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
April 30, 2018, 11:05:36 PM
Yes good news my son invited us to gs little legue game tonight and it was nice to see them. Dl wasn't there so maybe that's why we were invited.
I'm just going to take it one day at a time, and try to focus more on us.
But it was nice seeing them.
Love to all
I'm just going to take it one day at a time, and try to focus more on us.
But it was nice seeing them.
Love to all
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
April 29, 2018, 05:45:53 PM
I'm not waiting for them to come around but I hope, I love them all and wish I never caused a uproar but I can't change the past.
I loved my MIL so much but I think times have changed , since we've been such a big part of my gs life I feel like I'm abandoning him and he'll wonder were Papa and Grandma are.
Life is short love to all
I loved my MIL so much but I think times have changed , since we've been such a big part of my gs life I feel like I'm abandoning him and he'll wonder were Papa and Grandma are.
Life is short love to all
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
April 29, 2018, 10:00:45 AM
Yes I'm trying not to focus on them , though it's hard everyday I feel better.
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
April 27, 2018, 09:17:15 PM
I meant thank you both so much
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / Re: dil and adult son
April 27, 2018, 09:16:08 PM
Thank You so much your reply post has helped me this week so much.
No communication between us I'm just hoping they will reach out.
Thanks again
Cece
No communication between us I'm just hoping they will reach out.
Thanks again
Cece
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Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws / dil and adult son
April 26, 2018, 06:33:06 PM
I'm so ashamed I had a big blow up with dil at grandsons little league game, my 6 year old grandson asked to come over to our house and she said no.
For the past month I've been at her beck and call babysitting money drives to airport pet sitting ect., and just once I thought why not say yes to me and she said no and I threw a fit.
Back story is I've been threw chemo for ovarian cancer within the past year and also kidney removal and I'm short to anger. I apologized right away to her my son her mom but no can do they hate me and have been pretty mean.
What can I do
For the past month I've been at her beck and call babysitting money drives to airport pet sitting ect., and just once I thought why not say yes to me and she said no and I threw a fit.
Back story is I've been threw chemo for ovarian cancer within the past year and also kidney removal and I'm short to anger. I apologized right away to her my son her mom but no can do they hate me and have been pretty mean.
What can I do
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