Dear Wise-Women
Today my son and dil came home with my three grandchildren. So my two eldest 3 and 5 were playing and my 3-year old granddaugher accidentally hit my 5-year old grandson. She said I am sorry, and my grandson said "Ï dont forgive you". So we were all together in the living room. I said to dil " gd said she was sorry and gs said he did not forgive her (said it in a joking way). She turned towards me and said (in a very serious mode) "Ï cannot reprimand son because sometimes its the other way around and daughter says No when son apologizes to her". I just shut my mouth....well no, I actually said "ökey" lol.
I wonder now.....did I do the correct thing? I really think that two wrongs dont make a right one.
I really dont have now problems with dil....but I hate not being able to debate or express an opinion. I think that maybe she was not in a good mood. Oh Well.
Love