I can't talk to my dad about it because he is married to one of the family members too and he dare not say anything.
My question here is what is more normal, being agressive, mean, and forward but wearing the pants in the house as the breadwinners or being quiet if there is nothing good to talk about and being a SAHM?
The women run the family. I see and hear a lot of things that don't seem right and I know I'm not crazy. I just feel sad because my spouse seems very attached to his mom's family. I don't like going around them because I know I will be ambushed in some way and mad when I leave.
I don't know how to love a person who can't love me enough to even acknowledge my feelings. My spouse is kind of like them, so I don't know why I am caring. I am the one who will lose all around.
Even if no one responds I am just glad to kick these thoughts out of my mind.