March 28, 2024, 07:58:04 AM

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Messages - MrsGinger

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 :-X Reading this has somewhat helped me with the situation I am in.. Letting go is the hardest as he is my youngest son at age 29... He has been there for me through thick and thin, Up until he married his second wife. Now it's just sad how he treats me and talks to me. I know I have got to let go... The hardest part for me is not being allowed to see my 5 grandchildren that he has. Thank you all for having the courage to post on here, It really does help.
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Due to our home burning down a little over a year ago, we had to buy a used trailer and put it on a lot behind my youngest son's home. He owns the land. My DIL never has been a big fan of mine and my sons relationship. To make a long story as short as I can and still get the point across. My Son and DIL told me when we moved out here there was 3 certain people that could not be on the property. About a month and a half ago one of them people came to visit me he is my nephew. Anyhow I know that I should have asked him to leave, but I didn't . I messaged my son and told him that my nephew had been here but was not here long.
   My son totally blew up at me. He will not respond to me in anyway at all. This is breaking my heart. He and his wife have 5 of my grandchildren that I was used to seeing almost daily, especially the 5 year old twin girls, they would come every day after school for a few hours. Now he will not even allow me to see them, and my DIL plays mind games with me. She is extremely Bipolar and will not stay on her medication. When she takes her meds as prescribed she is very nice to me. but lately she has been very mean and spiteful.
        This is literally destroying me inside. I love and Miss my son so much.. And needless to say the grand kids are sad and do not understand why they can't visit anymore... Please tell me what I can/should do.. Also we have been asked to move our trailer off the land... :(