I hope everyone is doing well. I came by to see how you all are doing and I saw this from CP. CP it has taken me over 4 years to accept that no matter how much I planned for the future with DS and DIL and GC, it's not going to happen. We all live in a small town and everyone know everybody's business. DS has since moved over 2500 miles away. I believe this helped make it easier for him to continue with his own idea of his family's happiness and he doesn't have to answer the constant questions from friends and family members that he continued to run into at the store or restaurants, etc..... He has moved several times with the company he is with and frankly, I have no address or any idea how to get touch if I needed to do so. My DH said if something happens to him and this is still going on, do not try to contact DS. I feel the same way and we have had to have wills drawn up since all this has transpired. It opened our eyes to a lot of things. I ask myself if this is how he always was and we ignored and DIL just brought it out more with her influence. We were just baffled. It is greater than I so I can tell you this, I sleep good at night and live each day as it comes. I believe that I have to be here for me and my FOO and he is making his choice too as an adult. Letting bygones-be bygones. Wishing everyone Peace.