March 29, 2024, 03:21:20 AM

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"Welcome to WiseWomenUnite.com -- When adult children marry and leave home, life can sometimes get more complex instead of simpler.  Being a mother-in-law or daughter-in-law can be tough.  How do we extend love and support to our mothers-in-law, adult children, daughters-in-law, sons-in-law, and grandchildren without interfering?  What do we do when there are communication problems?  How can we ask for help when we need it without being a burden?  And how do our family members feel about these issues?  We invite you to join our free forum, read some posts... and when you're ready...share your challenges and wisdom."


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Messages - island life

1
I miss his voice , his face ,his smile , his goofy way to say Mother , his hug , his I love you mother .
Thanks for listening
2
Thanks
I still not have written the letter , I think about it everyday but nothing is coming out .
But I have to admit that the pain is less and less ,he is a man...
Again thanks
3
It really feel good to share , for myself all my friends have a decent family, there adults children's are in contact and have Sunday dinners and spend time with there grand children. They know that there is a problems but nobody talk about it ,I gest they don't want to hurt me, and to be honest I would probably lie
Thanks for listening (Sorry for all the mistake , English is my second language )
4
It's been a long temps since I talk to him and I miss him but I have to get used to it because I will not contact him because I know I will crack , and if he know I am fragile he is going to take advantage , but it feel good to sait that I miss him and that you guys understand
Again thanks for listening
5
Thanks Jehanne ,
I to have taken the crumbs that his wife allows him to send my way .   I am tired and decided to stop the money so I know that the relationship will stop as well , don't take me wrong my heart is in pieces but I will survive.   He was raised with so much love , I think that is the hardes to overcome .
As you probably can tell I am still all over the place
I need time
Thanks ladys for your help     
6
Oh my, Thanks Luise.
Yes , it does not matter what I say to him
Yes , I have been ridiculed for my feeling
Yes , I am tired of trying but I have a hard time of letting go
I think like you I will try to start a letter with no intention of sending it , it's a good idea and see where it lead me .
Thanks for the promp respond it make me feel better thanks
7
Please help,
My heart and my head are not at the same place and I have to let go for my health and my sanity.
I don't know how to start i''m all-over the place
Thanks