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Problem Solving => Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws => Topic started by: donewithdrama on June 25, 2010, 03:03:32 PM

Title: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: donewithdrama on June 25, 2010, 03:03:32 PM
DH and I are going to be parents!! We found out a few days ago, and we are so excited!! As of now it doesn't change the cut off situation we are in with the inlaws and I don't think it ever will. It makes me said to think our child will have one less set up grandparents but then I remind myself they really aren't losing out on much, I've dealt with a toxic grandmother, and I'm NOT going to let my child be exposed to one. So for now, we are happily planning out our lives and looking forward to a new bundle of joy early next year  :)
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: willingtohelp on June 25, 2010, 03:10:29 PM
Congratulations!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: luise.volta on June 25, 2010, 03:13:37 PM
And you said you were Done With Drama! Ha! Now the good drama starts!!! Congratulations!!!!  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: donewithdrama on June 25, 2010, 03:49:06 PM
Lol you are too funny!! My mom keeps telling me that too!!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: brandynd on June 25, 2010, 09:39:49 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!  Welcome to the WWU preggo DIL club!  Yay!  So excited that there's somebody else on here now to share with!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: brandynd on June 25, 2010, 09:40:53 PM
Oh yes Luise.  I just started my own WWU club....love it!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: Pen on June 25, 2010, 11:52:42 PM
Yikes! We can't catch it by posting right after you, can we, LOL? Congratulations all WWUPDIL-clubbers  ;D
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: donewithdrama on June 26, 2010, 05:20:52 AM
Thelaststraw,
When are you due? I'm late Feb/Early March.
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: brandynd on June 26, 2010, 02:21:09 PM
Late January/early February:) YAAAAYYY!!!!  Pretty excited, can't wait to find out what's cookin though! Anyways, I better go if the hubby and I are going to make it to the Clemson, SCU game without spending an hour hunting for parking!  Have a good night ladies!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: willingtohelp on June 26, 2010, 04:14:31 PM
Just out of curiousity, which team do you root for?  I hope I don't make an enemy by saying Go Clemson!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: donewithdrama on June 27, 2010, 04:43:35 PM
Well, DH and I  spent the morning at the ER, I'm losing the pregnancy. The dr said my cervix is closed but with all the heavy bleeding and cramping I'm definitely starting to miscarry. DH and I have been crying all day, it's been so awful.
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: willingtohelp on June 27, 2010, 04:50:51 PM
Sending ((hugs)) and thinking of you both.
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: cadagi101 on June 27, 2010, 05:43:29 PM
Thinking of you both, sending love
xxxx
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: donewithdrama on June 27, 2010, 05:55:54 PM
Thanks guys. We had just gotten used to the idea enough to start telling people about the pregnancy and then we lose it. Hopefully we can try again soon.
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: brandynd on June 27, 2010, 06:03:52 PM
I'm so sorry honey!  I'm thinking of you!  If you just want to talk about it, I hope you know I'll be here to listen to you!  It will happen for you again, I just know it.
And Clover....I'm so sorry you're a Clemson fan.  I pity you....lol.  GOOOO GAMECOCKS!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: Nana on June 28, 2010, 02:58:10 AM
Donewithdrama

I am sory for what is happening.  I will keep you in my prayers.  Things always happen for a reason.....   

Hugs...
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: Pooh on June 28, 2010, 06:25:56 AM
So sorry DDW, I know that is heartbreaking.  It will happen again for you guys.

Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: Hope on July 03, 2010, 09:21:34 AM
DWD,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  I know it is heartbreaking for you.  You are in my thoughts.
Hugs, Hope
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: BellaTerra66 on July 03, 2010, 01:05:01 PM
DWD. I am so sorry for your loss.  This is so sad.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Bella
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: luise.volta on July 03, 2010, 02:31:10 PM
I too am so sad. It felt like "our" baby. I hope better days and a wonderful family are ahead. Sending love...
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: Postscript on July 12, 2010, 03:57:35 AM
DWD I'm so sorry.  If you need to talk to someone who's been there done that, well you know how to find me :)

Thinking of you.
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: donewithdrama on July 13, 2010, 05:07:37 PM
Thank you guys for being so sweet. I had a dr visit yesterday, everything looks good, in two months we can start trying again. They did take some blood to check me for a bunch of stuff the dr rattled off, something about genetic diseases. I'm now stressing a bit waiting for the bloodwork to come back........

Luise you guys are all welcome to be honorary Gigi's(that's what we call grandmas in my family) when we finally have a baby!!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: luise.volta on July 13, 2010, 05:18:32 PM
Oh, goodly! That will be wonderful!  ;D Luigi the Gigi!
Title: Re: OMG I can't believe it!!
Post by: Pooh on July 14, 2010, 01:53:43 PM
Yay!  Gigi Pooh.....