I wanted to share a positive update on the situation I reported with my GD's behavior and the other GM. Things have changed drastically in a few short months. The other GM no longer wants to babysit my 2 adorable GD's and has other activities that fill her life. As a result, she has cancelled her babysitting favors at the last min ute multiple times and alienated her BD and SIL, who both work and depend on her babysitting. My older GD now loudly protests going to the other GM's house because she "makes me watch TV all day and breaks all her promises to me". How quickly God works in a situation! My FT job does not allow me much paid time off to help with the babysitting, but I do what I can and my BH also helps. When I watch my BGD's, I try to maintain a firm and loving experience and plan lots of fun, "free" activities to constantly keep things fresh and fun. The moral of the story is this - trust God to undertake in your situation and He will do the very best for you and your family!