I'm trying not to go off the deep end with this (I'm prone to anxiety - so its a challenge). Bottom line is - assuming she's looking for a bail-out - I live alone and like it that way and I am definitely NOT in the lending business (bank). I'm not responsible to fixing anyone or bailing anyone out. This sounds cold and uncaring - but I'm not. I love both girls, but I need to protect myself. I'm 70 years old with very few friends, living on a pension. I don't know what she's been involved in (drugs?) to get into this "situation". I guess things would be a little easier now if the past 4 years were not a total mystery. Right now - I need encouragement to be strong. Giving in and offering my couch, food and money will not do any good for either one of us. Help, please?