Just wanted to share this site with anyone who needs something like this, or anyone who knows someone else who may benefit.
It helped me out when I finally found it, 7 months after the husband died... wasn't there when he died and hope those who need this will find it much sooner than I did.
At any rate, I made many friends through this site that I remain friends with to this day. Just as We need each other to help us navigate our AC, because others don't get it, the widowed need the same.
www.widowedvillage.org (http://www.widowedvillage.org)
www.soaringspiritsloss.org (http://www.soaringspiritsloss.org)
Thanks for this suggestion! I have already sent the link to a friend who just lost her husband a couple of weeks ago.
You are very welcome, Bamboo, I hope it helps your friend as much as it did me.