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Problem Solving => Daughter in Laws and/or Son in Laws => Topic started by: holliberri on June 01, 2011, 10:03:27 AM

Title: Hi Everyone
Post by: holliberri on June 01, 2011, 10:03:27 AM
Hey All,

I just wanted to say that I am going to be leaving. This is my request to have my account shutdown and moderating duties turned over to someone else. I have come to appreciate and love all of you, and you are more than welcome to e-mail me or find me on Facebook if you like, I imagine if I'm that important to find, you'll do it somehow. I trust that all of our troubles, whatever they may be, are only temporary and we can all find peace, acceptance and love as time goes on. For some of us, that is right here at this site, for others it is not, and I suppose that is okay...I think I have begun to move into the latter category.

It's been fun the last 6 months.

Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: AnonymousDIL on June 01, 2011, 10:06:40 AM
 :'(
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: Pooh on June 01, 2011, 12:14:24 PM
Going to miss you Holly.  You have offered great words of wisdom and great perspectives.  It has been a pleasure and I wish you the best in life.
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: lancaster lady on June 01, 2011, 12:16:37 PM
Holly ......

Wishing you the best of everything ...good luck with your new little one ....gonna miss you LOTS ...x
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: luise.volta on June 01, 2011, 12:44:03 PM
Sending love...
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: Sassy on June 01, 2011, 12:52:15 PM
Goodbye Holly.  I will think of you next time I get to watch the Housewives of NJ.  Goodbye Laurie.  Goodbye seasons.

I didn't click around much in the last day or two and I suppose I missed the lights blink on the last call.   

Good luck to you all.
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: Sassy on June 01, 2011, 07:06:32 PM
Donna, too?    Your exlpanation of the stages of grief was the best I'd read.    Love all you ladies.
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: AnonymousDIL on June 02, 2011, 05:44:27 AM
First, I want to say that this site has been a blessing and has really helped me understand my MIL more. At this point in time, however, I don't feel there is anything more for WWU to offer me. I request that my membership also be removed.
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: pam1 on June 02, 2011, 06:12:27 AM
Ok, then just quit posting.  What's so hard about that?

Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: overwhelmed123 on June 02, 2011, 06:14:07 AM
Hope you guys don't get banned now!
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: Pooh on June 02, 2011, 06:32:12 AM
I will miss you ADIL.  I have learned much from you too. 

If anyone just wants a hiatus for awhile, please don't ask to have your membership deleted.  The software will automatically ban you if you have your account deleted.  It does this because it doesn't know the difference between someone that has been deleted because they broke rules (an actual ban) and someone that volunteers to be deleted.  The software bans anyone that has their account deleted.  It's not a person banning people because they asked to be deleted.

That is what the confusion is all about right now on the words "banned".  Once your account is deleted, it will give you this message if you try to come back because of what I explained above. 

So if you feel the need to take a break, please just don't post.  Your account will remain active if you choose to come back.  If you truly want to be deleted, then ask...but do so with the understanding it will not let you come back.

I love this place and I love all you guys.  I am staying and continuing to learn and grow.  That is my choice.
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: Sassy on June 02, 2011, 08:06:17 AM
Thank you to Pooh and to pam1 and pen and other mods for all your hard work.  That you for helping Luise and keeping WWU around for those of us who truly appreciate what it offers. 

FWIW, I did not get the impression anyone was "banned".  Those who are leaving are obviously doing it because they want to leave.   

When works keeps me away from here, I don't post.  When I can, I love coming back here.  Thank you for making it possible for me to do so.
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: Pooh on June 02, 2011, 08:24:07 AM
Thank you Sassy.  I hate all this is going on because I love this place too.  I guess you can call me your "groupie" because I can't wait until you get on here and post.  I always love your words and I usually learn something.
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: luise.volta on June 02, 2011, 08:27:45 AM
Whew...what a breath of fresh air! Thank you. Sending love...
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: Dianna on June 02, 2011, 09:15:22 AM
Yes, Sending Love
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: lancaster lady on June 02, 2011, 09:18:39 AM
I'm sorry for everyone jumping ship too ....but I guess they had their reasons .
Logging in Captain .....hope the rest of the crew climb aboard too ..... :)
Title: Re: Hi Everyone
Post by: luise.volta on June 02, 2011, 09:23:23 AM
Thanks. What's true is "everyone" isn't jumping ship. We have over 3,000 members and about 10 new ones join every day. It's just a house-cleaning, I guess.