Quote from: Green Thumb on September 10, 2016, 08:56:06 AM
Pen, is it possible that your son has a mood disorder or is just plain old grouchy or kind of mean spirited? I don't know your situation but I do know one of my AC, actually TWO of them (LOL) are moody and one never knows are you getting the angel or the mean one during whatever encounter we have. Both of these AC, one male and one female, are really only happy when we are giving (money or attention usually). Yet, they don't offer to pay or give to us. Personally, I feel kind of bad inside that I have to be so detached emotionally from them but like you said, one has to protect oneself from the constant hurt or pain.
Green Thumb, may I respectively request that you go back and read some of the threads on our older members before commenting. I have seen several now where they have long standing stories here, that you make suggestions without knowing any of the story. I know you mean well, but if you went and read all years of work they have put in, all the different things they have tried, you will find out...that sometimes there are not answers except that our AC and their spouses are jerks no matter what the OP does.