Freespirit....It had not even occurred to me that the way my DIL and DS treat me will teach my GC how to treat me. Maybe it is better to just step back and let things play out. I am no doctor but I do believe that her family is disfunctional. Everyone except her Mom has ADD and it was, after all, HER therapist.
Herbalescapes.....The things you are so willing to over look seem ruder to me than the one you chose to object to. Funny how that works out. Yes he is in school but he quit yet another job this week. DIL is about to graduate but has decided that although teaching is what she has wanted all her life and will be getting her degree in she cannot do it. Teaching is a really difficult career so I can understand that. She has decided to go back to school and get a masters degree in art. Do you know what you use a masters in art for if you do not teach? I can't think of anything. She is a wonderful artist though!! I asked her to do a picture for me and it is really wonderful! I don't think I could sell it for $500 and that is what she charged me to do it. If she can sell them for that much she should just start making those! It took her less than a week. Sounds like good money to me. Unfortunately I am her only customer.....
Ladystar....bless your heart! I am so sorry things have gotten so bad! They better be glad they have you instead of me because I would send them packing. You are a much stronger person than I am. Hope things improve!
Thanks again for the wonderful ideas and thoughtfull replies! My DH thanks you too!! LOL