I have found a web site that I want to share with you all... its VERY GOOD !!! It is hosted by a Psych. Dr. and she mostly helps Men dealing with Toxic Girlfriends/or Wives.
web site is www.shrink4men.wordpress.com
Then look up
"10 Signs Your Girfriend or Wife is an Emotional Bully".
It give's accurate descriptions of Emotional Disorders and the effects.
This site really opened my eyes and validated everything I have been wondering about this young woman my son is now hooked to for life. Advise is free... Donations are accepted but not required, PLUS she offers Phone or SKYPE Counseling.
HOPE IT HELPS YOU...