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Drug overdose DS

Started by Itsgoingtobeok, February 17, 2020, 01:09:41 pm

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Itsgoingtobeok

My son passed away this weekend to a drug overdose. I am heartbroken, yet some what relieved that he is at peace. We hadn't spoken in almost 4 years. I tried to help, we always fought, actually he was very awful to me, pushed me away as hard as he could. Right now, I am in shock, kind of comatosed,don't know what I should be doing. I don't even know why I am here, just hoping someone else out there has experienced this and could share some  wisdom.

luise.volta

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My heart goes out to you. I lost my eldest son when we were at odds and had been for years. It wasn't a drug overdose, it was a sleep apnea stroke. It left me with so many feelings of guilt and incompletion that I didn't know how to deal with. 

I wish I had gone to a therapist, so that is all I can think of to suggest to you. I needed to be heard and supported by someone not involved in my life and the drama of our relationship. I eventually learned that my son had a lot of issues that had nothing to do with me that he held me responsible for. 

You matter. You did your best and that's all any of us can do. Blessings...
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

Itsgoingtobeok

Ty, Louis, this is a tough one. I am taking your advise and seeking some help.

luise.volta

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Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama