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How to respond/should I even?

Started by not like the movies, October 12, 2012, 06:47:20 PM

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I wouldn't make a big deal about it.  For what it's worth, both DH and I have access to each others emails and due to several things -- we often have to check each others emails for valid reasons.  Just yesterday I had to check DHs to make sure a gift I bought off of Amazon shipped because our Amazon account is under his email. 

On another note, I would prepare for a bigger fall out coming.  I think it will be hard for any spouse to discover that their marriage is being talked about with others.  I'm so sorry and really sympathize with you, any abuse is terrible and this cannot be easy.  Hopefully your DS and DIL will work their problems out.
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