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DIL here, would like input from the other POV

Started by Trondogs, February 15, 2012, 07:51:36 am

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pam1

Call the police and file a report.  Your mother should send a cease and desist letter to her.  And keep copies of everything.  Do not respond personally at all to her. 
People throw rocks at things that shine - Taylor Swift

Trondogs

I'm not calling the police. The cop in my town is the cop that is investigating this case and is the cop that arrested me the other night. I meet with my attorney on Tuesday and I will ask him what my mother should do. I bet if my mother doesn't respond she will keep on emailing her and eventually there will be a whole load of emails to bring where the plaintiff is trying to contact the defendant's family members...

luise.volta

Most email programs have an email-blocking feature. Mine at Google does...
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

luise.volta

ID - I'm suggesting here that we do the best we can to support T without getting hooked on the drama. That isn't going to help, IMO.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

Trondogs

And everything is to be done with my attorney anyways. I just want to vent that I know this is not the end and of course I'm nervous about what is to come.

luise.volta

Of course you are. What a nightmare! Sending love...
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

Trondogs

Thank you. Stressing out about attorney fees in itself is a nightmare!!!