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What is the truth?

Started by 2chickiebaby, February 21, 2010, 11:35:38 AM

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luise.volta

There's probably endless definitions of love. If you are visiting someone you care about, it's probably a loving occasion. Conversely, when in had major surgery eons ago...I asked everybody not to visit me and I saw their staying away was an expression of love.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

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Sometimes it's difficult for people to see someone sick or in pain. 

luise.volta

I think they were fine with it and wanted to party!  ;D ;D And I wanted to be left alone to recover.

And seriously, I don't think anyone really wants to see someone sick or in pain. When I was a student nurse, I was hiding in an alcove where I hoped my supervisor wouldn't find me and I was crying over the death of a patent. Well, she caught me. Then she hugged me and said that when I stopped caring ovr losing someone, it was time to get out of nursing!WiseWoman!
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama