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Re: Some days the saddness and longing are overwhelming

Started by Martinick, October 23, 2011, 09:56:32 PM

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Martinick

I am sorry to read about your estrangement. I certainly understand the meaning of 'hurt' due to misunderstandings. My daughter stopped contacting me a year ago. I don't know when we will be back on good terms. I have relied on my good friends to help me through this difficult time. I also went out and got myself a new little bird. Gosh, what a wonderful asset!! He has been a refreshing addition to my life! I would highly recommend a new little pet friend upon which you can lavish your attention. My little guy has worked magic for me! I also have taken up guitar. It totally distracts me from my loneliness. You cannot be 'down' when you are playing music. Keep your faith, and I will, too.
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pam1

Welcome martinick :)

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Pen

Welcome, Martinick. I hope you find comfort and support here.
Respect ... is appreciation of the separateness of the other person, of the ways in which he or she is unique.
-- Annie Gottlieb

sesamejane

Welcome Martinick,
I am estranged from my son, and my daughters live too far to see often.  I have an old cat that I inherited from when the kids were still at home.  She is over 17.  She has become kinda grouchy but is still great company.  I agree with you that pets are comforting.  I took up the Uke but have not had the time to play in awhile.  Once I get settled from this last move, I will get going with it again.

Anyway, welcome again, and I hope you find the support you need here too.  It has been a real life saver for me. :-*