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When a loved one won't make eye contact with you

Started by barelythere, September 22, 2010, 10:44:03 am

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sassafras

My son has never looked anyone in the eyes either,  I don't know why.   It does bother me a whole lot sometimes.  I know he loves me but treats me cruelly because he knows that I will always be there for him.  I am safe but he hurts me so much.

luise.volta

I wonder. Is he cruel because he knows you will always be there for them...or is he endlessly testing you to see where the line will ultimately be drawn? Sometimes the behavior of others is impossible to figure out...at least for me
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama