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Started by 2chickiebaby, January 02, 2010, 06:29:16 pm

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2chickiebaby

1. We're not mentally ill.
2. We're not trying to break up our child's marriage.
3. We're not projecting our problems onto our DILs or whatever that mumbo jumbo is about.
4. We're not disordered either, personality wise.
5. We know our son/daughter are not responsible for our happiness.
6. Get over yourselves if you think we think our sons/daughters are not supposed to fly the nest.
7. We're not hoping our children will be our entertainment.
8. We're not burdening our sons/daughters with our lives.
9. We're not trying to sabotage our sons/daughters lives.
10. Grow up and while you're at it, get a heart.  We're not jealous of you, good Lord!  How could that be?  Let's see, no heart, no soul, no kindness, no thought for anyone else but yourselves and your little life.  You're sick of us?  Is that right.....tsk tsk. 

greeneyes100

love it......we really should build ourselves up every day.....go chicky

cocobars

Entertainment??  Can't imagine...

Would we really want our adult children back and dependant on us again?  Nope!!!!  You can take care of that while I nap, thank you!

OK, you win!  You can 'ave em!  LOL!

greeneyes100

chicky I had not read the one from the other site. I am in totally agree with you.

cocobars

I agree with you also.  I meant no disrespect by my sarcasm and I hope it wasn't taken that way.  I got a funny bone when I was trying to imagine the entertainment part...

2chickiebaby

I loved it... If they think we want them back here? Please, no sir! 

the "guests" on here love to read about us and put their take about us on other sites. They psychoanalyze us with their pathetic empty heads.  I'm mad.  I feel betrayed too.  We've been accommodating to all of them.

greeneyes100

my entertainment ?  LOL coco I dont even remember it but was told what I did in no uncertain terms. They should not have kept putting the chivars regal in front of me before I had anything to eat. It sounds like I put on an amazing show certainly one they will not forget. Apparantly everything I hated a about everyone just poured out of my mouth with a lot o %#@&%#@ and it was a highly religious wedding people from dublie.saudi arabia. sudan. etc

2chickiebaby

I'm sorry, I'm dying laughing here!! I would have loved to have been there!  Did you dance on any tables?  HILARIOUS!!!

cocobars

Yes!  Been there, don't that, bought the tee shirt, sold it in a yard sale and it was full of holes when it left.

Oh!  And the woman who bought it tried to return it!  I just can't imagine the "entertainment" part.  Oh my! Could they think???

cocobars

I'm dying here!  So was there really dancing on the tables, etc.???  ROFLOL (rolling on the floor laughing out loud!)  You poor thing!  Should have brought a body guard with you!

greeneyes100

no but I was doing some stupid stuff with all the young ones  God only knows what that was  apparantly I was trying to shimmey  glad you are laughing  I can too now 4 years later

cocobars


cocobars

Oh, chickiebaby.  I believe you have opened a can of worms with the simple visual of the word "entertainment," in association with our grown children!  I'm not sure anyone could imagine or visualize the possibility of being entertained at our ages...  That is one of the greatest and most entertaining thoughts I could imagine or visualize at this point!  Your words have been well thought out!!

2chickiebaby

I don't allow myself to get mad very often but reading what they said made me mad and it made me feel betrayed.   Entertainment, my left brain. 

cocobars

I am really sorry.  I didn't mean any disrespect here.  I will sign off now and really, apologise.