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What I've learned after Thanksgiving

Started by 2chickiebaby, November 28, 2009, 04:26:27 pm

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2chickiebaby

Some things I've learned after having been so afraid of having Thanksgiving with my DIL coming here are:

I have allowed a screwball little brat to ruin my life, make me sick and wreck my health.  A rude, contolling, crazy, not very bright, mean young woman, who has about as much tact as a piece of paper, ruin MY LIFE!

I am so mad at myself....maybe that's what this whole thing was about.  I needed to get mad at ME.  I needed to see what this really was.

How in the world have I allowed this?  What has gone wrong with me?  Her?  I allowed her to ruin my life?  Are you kidding me? 

luise.volta

Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

2chickiebaby

Thank you, Luise....that's what this board is for, help and healing! 

I hope, speaking of healing, that you are getting better.  Much love :)