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Started by forever spring, August 26, 2010, 10:15:32 AM

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SunnyDays09

Quote from: Pooh on April 04, 2011, 07:37:34 AM
This is going to sound ugly, but it's just what I personally feel.  I have learned that if I don't feel appreciation, then I am not appreciated, I'm being used.  People that truly appreciate it will show it.  It may be a small way, like a thank you, hug or just a general feeling that you are appreciated.  They may forget to actually verbally express their appreciation, but you can feel it. 

If they are yelling or griping at you..well frankly, then they could do it all themselves, if it was me.  I am with the others, it's time to move on with your own life and let them figure out their own.  And as far as still sending them money....no way.  Spend that money you are saving on yourself and your DH. 

I know you love the GC, but please do not let your love for them be your reason for letting them treat you badly.  There is no excuse for that and you don't deserve that type of treatment.
YES!!!  I totally agree.  Love this

luise.volta

I don't see it as a failure. You wanted to give it your best and you succeeded in doing that. The rest is about them, not you. Sending love...
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama