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Offline Pooh

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Here we go....again.
« on: February 21, 2012, 08:03:49 AM »
So my YS is getting deployed.  I knew it was coming and have been preparing for it.  What I wasn't prepared for was a phone call from him this weekend.  One of the big issues with his DD and not seeing her is his inability to get back in court, being in the military.  Long story that I've told before, so I will not bore you again.

The call is because he is being deployed, he had the option of giving me full power of attorney over his affairs.  In researching it with the military's legal department, if he gave me full power of attorney, I can act on his behalf in regards to court and DD.  I can also assume his visitation on his behalf, because of a military law in our state.  So the call was to ask me if I wanted to do that.  Well of course I want to see GD.  I told him that if he granted that to me, I would then seek the opinion of an attorney after getting it to see what my options are.  So here I go again.....  ;D
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Re: Here we go....again.
« Reply #1 on: February 21, 2012, 08:13:41 AM »
Here we all go, P. We're with you every inch of the way. Sending love...
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Re: Here we go....again.
« Reply #2 on: February 21, 2012, 08:24:59 AM »
It will be worth it Pooh for your DS and yourself to see your GD.
good Luck .

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« Reply #3 on: February 21, 2012, 08:42:13 AM »
Yup, here you again....and you do have us riding shotgun, Pooh. Best wishes!
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Re: Here we go....again.
« Reply #4 on: February 21, 2012, 02:25:20 PM »
Good luck, Pooh.  It says a lot that he trusts you to have that kind of power and access in his life.  Sending my best thoughts!
This too shall pass.  All is well.

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Re: Here we go....again.
« Reply #5 on: February 21, 2012, 03:12:08 PM »
I know it's a lot on your plate but I'm happy for you, Pooh!  Definitely give us play-by-play accounts so we can cheer you on.

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« Reply #6 on: February 22, 2012, 03:03:40 AM »
Nice going..... Wish you all the luck....go for it...it is worthwhile.

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« Reply #7 on: February 22, 2012, 07:45:09 AM »
Hate the fact that he is being deployed (tell him thank you for his service), but glad that he's putting you in the mix and making it so you can see your GC.  You will be a great advocate for your GC.  Keep us updated for sure.

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« Reply #8 on: February 22, 2012, 02:21:50 PM »
Pooh, I so hope it works out for you! 
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« Reply #9 on: February 22, 2012, 06:32:18 PM »
 :)one of your cheerleaders too!!Good luck!

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« Reply #10 on: February 23, 2012, 11:52:44 AM »
Thank you much.  I have to get the paperwork, sign it....mail it back....military notarizes it and gets me a copy....mails it back........

So it could take a few weeks knowing the military.  Once I get it, I'll schedule a consultation here with one of our barracudas.  (And that's not downing a lawyer...I WANT a barracuda! Lol.)
We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us. -
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Re: Here we go....again.
« Reply #11 on: February 25, 2012, 06:37:54 AM »
Good luck and I do hope you get that paperwork and barracuda asap so you can see that GD.  I know you will have fun with her and love it . Good luck

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« Reply #12 on: February 25, 2012, 07:26:52 PM »
Pooh I wish you the very best possible outcome.  I'll be thinking about you a lot...just as I think about a lot of folks here!  We got your back!   J

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« Reply #13 on: February 25, 2012, 08:02:12 PM »
Pooh - We're pn it like white on rice! Sending love...
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« Reply #14 on: February 25, 2012, 09:47:10 PM »
Pooh, I'm so sorry your YS is getting deployed.   

But I admire you for stepping up on his behalf for the benefit of the GC.  I think you're fabulous!

and yep, here you go again.....and we will get our turns as well...good thing we have each other to go through life with.  ;-) 
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