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Started by luise.volta, December 07, 2009, 11:45:02 AM

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luise.volta

As most of you know, this is my Web-forum but I have recently been up against some almost insurmountable personal issues and have been necessarily absent.

In the meantime, we have some new members who need to read what I have written at the top right of the home page. It's my vision statement. Also please re-read the agreement you made when coming aboard.

Our Forum is for positive support and growth. If you are interested in controversy and conflict, there are numerous hate sites out there that will please you no end. Please go where you are wanted. We don't all agree on this site but we are respectful and kind at all times. For those we wish to attract, that is almost a given...for others it is almost impossible.

DILs interested in working through MIL issues in a respectful and kind way are welcome. In fact we need them. And we only have room for respectful and kind MILs. Please keep those two words in mind...respectful and kind. To me, they mean the same thing: mature.

You know who you are. There won't be any further or personal warnings...you will just find that you have been dropped from membership. I hope it isn't necessary but I have done it before and will do it as often as required to maintain the integrity of our site.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

luise.volta

Nice to know that 12 have already read this. Keep up the good work!
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

luise.volta

Now 31 have read this. Only 70 to go! Thank you one and all for keeping our site a joy for all.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama