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Luise how are you today

Started by cadagi101, April 13, 2011, 04:10:26 PM

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cadagi101

Hi Luise, I have been thinking about you a lot.   I was thinking of you last night hoping   you were getting some restful sleep.     I know from experience how sad you are it will take lots of time..
kind thoughts
Julia

luise.volta

Thank you for asking. I am all over the place. This loss leaves me in an empty house...once a home. I feel "Me, Too" close and that is a comfort...then I lose it again. It's been 6 days., so I think how I feel is "normal."

The conflict on WWU with members leaving feels like a failure to me and rests heavy on my heart. I wrote a long post today...but it disappeared into the ether someplace. I may try again.

Maybe tomorrow will be better. I do feel the love coming my way and am grateful.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

cadagi101

Quote from: luise.volta on April 13, 2011, 06:29:32 PM
The conflict on WWU with members leaving feels like a failure to me and rests heavy on my heart. I wrote a long post today...but it disappeared into the ether someplace. I may try again.



Luise I am so sorry you are having this problem on top of everything else.    The conflict you mention must be of the forum. I say that because I think and many WW would agree it is working brilliantly and we are really happy.     No way have you failed us.

luise.volta

Thank you so much. I needed to be reminded that it is usually those who are unhappy that you hear from most often. Sending love..
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

holliberri


luise.volta

Actually, that's not really me, as you know. I am pretty much down for the count...but it's temporary.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

Tara

Luise, 

I love this forum!  It has given me so much support and wisdom.  I'm very grateful.

So sorry about Me Too.

Love Tara

Rose799

Quote from: luise.volta on April 13, 2011, 08:44:03 PM
Thank you so much. I needed to be reminded that it is usually those who are unhappy that you hear from most often. Sending love..

Luise, have you no idea how many of us you've lifted from the depths of despair???  Your care & concern, experience, sage advice & wit keep us going.  You've provided us this site of refuge~   Here at WWU, you are the Alpha & Omega, Numero Uno, the big Kahuna, Top Dog!!! 

Thank you~

Faithlooksup

Quote from: luise.volta on April 13, 2011, 06:29:32 PM
Thank you for asking. I am all over the place. This loss leaves me in an empty house...once a home. I feel "Me, Too" close and that is a comfort...then I lose it again. It's been 6 days., so I think how I feel is "normal."

The conflict on WWU with members leaving feels like a failure to me and rests heavy on my heart. I wrote a long post today...but it disappeared into the ether someplace. I may try again.

Maybe tomorrow will be better. I do feel the love coming my way and am grateful.

Luise,  I am also very saddened to read about "Me,Too."  You all had a Beautiful, Fun Loving Life together~~Please try to hold that Dear in your heart and may that make you smile... :)  For its just never easy.......and that is why I will not get another Dog as much as I would Love to I wont do it.........plus its my age also to be truthful---who would Love my Dog as much as I would if something happened to me~~would my kids really take her/him????   Yes, I know they would for we are all animal lovers---but it still would not be the same..........So, 4 years ago I found a little kitten in a barn all by himself~~long story short of course I brought him home, then I went and adopted another one.......I have a problem....I cannot be without a animal and we live Happily ever after.......

Every day is a new day Luise that we are Blessed with......we face road blocks, obstacles and sometimes we hit dead ends.......We have choices to make and as long as they are healthy, good and wise ones for your sake as well as others, that is all that matters.....for YOU have given us so much~~we are grateful and you are LOVED.....

As always, sending HUgs your way....Faith

SunnyDays09

luise, in my darkest of times you helped me through with words of encouragement and inspiration.  My wish is that I return that for you.

Like my dad once told me "behind every dark cloud, there is a silver lining" 

Hoping those clouds blow away.  (((((hugs))))

luise.volta

Thank you one and all. You are all so precious and you all mean so much to me.

A friend of mine recommended I contact a Pet Intuitive that she knew personally and so I did. Yesterday, she, (Jennifer) worked with me and connected me up with Me, Too...who is right here!

And one of you sent me an e-card that said: "The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief. But the pain of grief is only a shadow when compared with the pain of never risking love." Hilary Stanton Zunin

I'm so grateful that you are walking with me though this. Thanks to you all, again.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

Faithlooksup

Luise,  Your thread about Me, Too being with you I BELIEVE in 100%.....  I cannot tell you how many times I have felt one of my dogs with me after loosing them.....and it was just not the feeling Luise it was also the incidents which took place as well.......for example one night after my shephard passed on from cancer, about three days later I woke up one morning to find her Frizbee in the middle of the living room......Well, I did not put it there, and no one else was home that night, nor did the frizbee grow legs to walk into the living room~~~their is no other explanation......

I do Believe Me, Too, is here with you.....I've got goose bumps.

cremebrulee

Ohhhhh my, Luise, I am so sorry, so sorry....please know you'll be in my thoughts and prayers...this is so saddening....don't know what I'd do without my fur person, however, I do know that life must go on, it's just so hard to do, they are akin to a loyal companion.

Don't know if this will help you....

http://www.selfhealingexpressions.com/loss_of_a_pet_support.shtml


just please know, your in my thoughts and prayers....

luise.volta

Four-footed, furry angles who teach unconditional love.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama

elsieshaye

Luise,  I just found out about Me, Too and send you all my love.
This too shall pass.  All is well.