She sat on my driveway and texted me a " hope you had a nice birthday" message....just that short, as she dropped off my GD.
My understanding is this, if she does NOT hear from me ever again in any way, shape or form, after groveling for the last 10 years, then there MIGHT be SOME hope of hugging her again some day and hearing the words we long to hear, " I love you mom, ". But I have reached the conviction that I must stay strong. I must no longer grovel. At 67, never too old to stop learning. I need to be set free once and for all. I have learned from my abusive oldest daughter, time to do this again. My son is good to me so that is a relief.