In case some have not been reading my post about my young grandaughter being pregnant I decided to post an update on the situation with my DS and his cutting us out of his life a year and a half ago. He called yesterday and said Momma, I apologise for being mean and saying the things I did, and I was wrong. As I said in my other post, I thought I was surely dreaming! We had a GREAT conversation and he thanked me for doing things the way I had because he learned finally that he can be proud of his accomplishments because I did not HAND him everything, he has earned them! I am glad that he learned what I was trying to teach him...now that's the boy I raised! He plans to continue a relationship with us now, and he said he does not understand why his wife wants only her family involved and why everything has always had to be her way or no way, but he is changing some things! He plans to stay with her, but I am thinking due to sad issue with my young grandaughters pregnancy, and other things counseling will be the next step for them...good. He plans to come to my house next Friday and bring my grandaughters! He said his wife can come, or she can stay home. He said he loved us and appreciated all me and my husband have done, and said he knows he has made many mistakes and bad choices and he's learned from that. Thanks all of you here for allowing me to blab on! I'm keeping my fingers crossed that things will now improve even past my wildest dreams. I plan to go pick up a few Valentines goodies for my grandaughters visit next Friday! I have not seen them for a year and a half, and I have missed them terribly. I guess it goes to show one can never tell what can happen! Thanks Luise for this website, I think it has helped keep me fairly sane through this ordeal. Thanks ladies for the posts and sharing which I feel have helped me to learn to take care of ME, and to learn to detach and look at things in a much different way. All I can think to say is WOW!!! lol Have a most joyous day ladies. J
