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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #1 on: June 30, 2011, 04:31:23 PM »
It's such bad manners to comment on someones bad manners  8)!

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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #2 on: June 30, 2011, 04:49:48 PM »
A friend emailed me an article on this earlier today.  I felt so bad for the FDIL, apparently she is a diabetic. 
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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #3 on: June 30, 2011, 05:17:03 PM »
Oh, no!

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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #4 on: June 30, 2011, 11:40:03 PM »
Run away! Run far, far away! As that country comedian says, "Thar's yer sign."

Did you catch this comment submitted in reply: "When you marry the son, you marry the parents too." Or you could just plan on cutting the son from the herd if you don't like his parents...even if they haven't done anything as heinous as this awful FSMIL.
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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #5 on: July 01, 2011, 01:22:29 AM »
I don't think she actually sent it to her FDIL , she sent it to a friend who then circulated it ...... :o
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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #6 on: July 01, 2011, 05:14:47 AM »
Whoa.  Sounds like both of them need some lessons in manners, but FMIL should have never wrote such a harsh email.  I have to say, if I was FDIL, I would have a hard time not un-inviting her to the wedding.  Wonder what DS has said about all of this?

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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #7 on: July 01, 2011, 05:35:44 AM »
LL, she did send it to the FDIL, who then sent it to a couple of friends (kind of along the lines of "OMG, look what she sent me!") and the friends then forwarded it to other people.  At that point, someone posted it online and it just took off from there.
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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #8 on: July 01, 2011, 06:21:33 AM »
The background I read said that this email was sent to her 3 times, once at her work email and twice at home.  Yikes.  And apparently the complaints about food and the hike had to do with her diabetes which this FMIL does not approve of. 
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Re: Think Twice Before Sending Letters...
« Reply #9 on: July 01, 2011, 07:19:17 AM »
This version has the full text of the email, which includes the comments about the FDIL's diabetes (just for accuracy's sake, since the version most commonly posted is an excerpt):

http://activitypit.ning.com/forum/topics/uk-news-bourne-ultimatum?xg_source=activity
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