ok, same issue, my ds and dil are going to walk away from their current mortgage, and move in with her foo "to save for a new house"!!!!!!!!!!! AND HER FOO CONDONE THIS?
I just cant believe my ears! they welcome them to do this! how selfish are they? they definitely are NOT thinking of their future! no, they are kinifing idiots who are only thinking of them selves!
i love my ds and my gc more than air, i don't wish any harm to come to them IN ANY FASHION!
i gave ds a few websites to visit, and some articles to read. he IMMEDIATLY responded!!! i guess i hit a cord. he is defending the walk away, so this is not intirely dil's idea. his choice as well. he believes from speaking with her (dil) foo, they have done this 2 times in their lives, that the outcome will be the same for them. i tried to say, each and everyones outcome is different. i just dont understand how her foo can think this is a good idea for anyone let alone their own flesh and blood!!!! are they so lonely that they are willing to let their own daughter's furure go to crap just to have them home???
this is not what he used to believe. alot of things he used to think have changed, why wouldn't this? i tried to ask if their income and foo's income was the exact same down to the penny, if the outgoing was the same, the family size the same, ect, ect, he says he's researched it and it doesn't matter! OMG! this is so bad!
well, all i can say from this point on is "good luck with that" which i did. ok, done venting. :'( :'(
oh, as we were talking, i mentioned we are buying a potty chair for gc, (were obviously potty training) we are going to have him this week, i asked if they preferred a certain kind of chair, he said , and i quote, "no, just as long as you put the chair in the bathroom" REALLY?
i mean REALLY?
did he just say that to me?? OMG?? what, or who for that matter does he think hes talking to? i think i will put the chair under the christmas tree, just for giggles.